Maintain Control of the Interview (Part I)
Interviews Jan 10, 2013 12:00:00 AM Topgrading Team %
Just about every book on how to get a job says that interviewers are so bad at interviewing (that’s generally true) that to get a job offer, interviewees must take control of the interview to tell interviewers how good they are. And the books advise candidates to prepare self-promoting sound bites. Those books advise that, just like a politician on TV, candidates should answer the questions
they want asked, which will not be the ones interviewers ask. Fortunately, most candidates preparing for a Topgrading interview go to
Topgrading.com, learn about the chronological interview, read that they will be able to talk about all their successes, and see that they will have to arrange calls with former bosses as a final step in hiring. Sharp candidates realize that if they take control and avoid answering questions, they won’t get a job offer. But…even 'A Player' candidates usually have
some failures they’d prefer not to talk about and instinctively try to manipulate their interviewers. There are three key ways to take back control if the interviewee either tries to take over or just wanders off on topics not of interest to you:
- The first time you need to regain control, be gentle, but interrupt and restate your question.
- The next time interrupt and explain, “Pat, our Topgrading process involves asking a lot of questions about a lot of jobs, and I’d really appreciate it if you focus on the question asked.” Or, “Your running marathons sounds fascinating, but I’m concerned we won’t have time to complete this interview if we don’t get back to discussing your career.”
- And the third time say something like, “Joe, I’m wondering if you’ve read some books that say you have to take control of the interview. Please don’t because I’m thinking that if you come to work for me, I will have difficulty getting you to answer my questions.”